Do you know someone who you think would be a great addition to your networking referral group? Here’s how to bring up the subject and important questions to ask before you make the final invitation to join the group.
“I’m glad I’ve had the chance to build a business relationship with you. You’ve got a great networking philosophy. Are you part of a leads group right now?”
If they are part of a leads group, you have the choice of wishing them the best in their group or trying to “steal” them away. Stealing them might not be the best approach if you’re taking a long-term networking perspective. The leader of that group is someone you might want to network with in the future. Don’t upset them by taking a member from them. You wouldn’t want it done to you.
They might say that they’re already in a leads group, but that they don’t like it or that it’s not working for them. Before you blurt out an invitation, find out a few things. How long have they been in the group? Less than a couple months may mean they haven’t given it a chance to work and they don’t have a long term perspective. Is this their first group? Hopping from group to group suggests they are skimming of business and then moving on to a new group. How many leads do they usually take to the group? No leads, then no wonder it’s not working. They haven’t figured out that you have to give first.
If you’ve spent time with the prospective member and you have seen evidence that they are a patient, give first networker, it’s not likely that they’ll have these kinds of problems. Their current group may simply not be a good fit for them either due to the member dynamics or the time and location. Offer them a spot and encourage them to part their old group on good terms.
They may say that they are not in a leads group right now, but they have been in one previously. As with the person who is already in a group, ask some questions. How long have they been away from their old group? Why did they leave their old group? Have they been searching for a new one? Again, you want to find out right away if they are just visiting groups long enough to get some business. If their past experience with a group was good but they had to leave due to relocation or a new job, you’ve found a double gold mine. This is someone who knows the value and could help you build up your current group once their on board.
The final answer that you are most likely to get is “I don’t know what a leads group is.” You should be prepared with a good, short description of a leads club and how it works. You are their first teacher when it comes to referral groups so make sure you emphasis the relationship building aspect, the need for patience, and the give-first strategy. If they’re already a good networker, they will probably be eager for the opportunity to take their business and their networking to another level.
Now that you feel confident that this person is a good addition to your group, don’t forget the most important step in sales: closing. Ask them if they like what you’ve told them about the group. You can say “assuming that the time and location is convenient, should I go ahead and add you to the member list?” Or, another closing statement is, “I think we both agree that this will be a great fit for us both. Here’s the membership application. You can fill it out now or bring it to the next meeting.”
However you say it, don’t let the conversation end without a clear invitation from you to them to join the group.
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About the Author: Beth Bridges is The Networking Motivator ™ and creator of the 5 Part Networking Success Plan ™, a simple networking system that can help anyone from business owners to sales agents to college students develop a powerful network. Subscribe to the weekly Networking Motivator Newsletter at http://www.thenetworkingmotivator.com/ for a quick boost of networking inspiration, information and motivation.”
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